until, i noticed something!
when im idling on msn, and my mom goes upstairs and boots her pc up and logs on msn too, they both start disconnecting (the msn clients) constantly, every 3 or 4 minutes.
we're both using messenger 6.2, firmware on the router is the latest, everything should be working perfectly
so i start playing around a bit, and notice xp has enabled ics.. it has no reason to do this as the router is also a modem plugged directly into the dsl, which every pc then connects to, it's the middle man... so i try and turn ics off, and fail, miserably, xp keeps babbling something about "The internet connection sharing computer is not configured to let network users control or disable the internet sharing connection. this setting can be changed in the advanced properties of the shared connection or the internet connection sharing computer" - so i wander round all the pc's trying to find said advanced properties, and get that same message on each one! that's no good, i have ics enabled on a mystery ghost machine that i cant find
any one got any idea how i shut the stupid thing off?