Well, you've heard the story. I can't connect to multiplay with MW4 whether by LAN, Zone, or IP.
On the Zone it just gives me a "Cannot connect to server. May have networking problems" when I doubleclick on a game. On LAN, games simply never show up and players are kicked off immediately.
And it can't be firewalls, drivers, or my connection, because other games like Freelancer work [at least in LAN. Haven't tried actual online game yet].
And considering how many times MW "forgets" I have Mechpacks installed, I'm inclined to believe it's the game. Not me.